You are motivated in two ways: intrinsically and extrinsically. That is, for some things you are motivated by a drive inside of you (intrinsic), fueled by dreams, loves, values, Truth, etc. For other things, you are motivated to do them because you are motivated extrinsically - by wages, popularity, promotions, and rewards.
Example: If you have a special needs child, you wake up every day thinking about special needs kids and how they might flourish, how to parent them most effectively, what new breakthroughs are being made, etc. No one has to ask you, pay you, or reward you in any way to do this - you are driven or compelled to do it from within.
Example: Some people stay in jobs they hate or take a pass when they’re given an opportunity to try something they’ve dreamed of because the money doesn’t pencil out. Sometimes we have “golden handcuffs” on us in a job - the pay is too good or the stocks are not vested yet, or a bonus is coming, etc. So, we remain in that position for the cash or other extrinsic rewards.
Take a moment today and consider your own life. What are your intrinsic motivations? What is it that you would do for no pay at all, or that you would sacrifice deeply to improve? What wins your free time and your free thought life?
Then take a moment to consider your extrinsic motivations: what are you doing because of fear of failure? What are you doing just because you need the money, or the benefits, or the retirement? What would you walk away from if only….?
Now - consider how to align your motivations into a life you can love deeply. How can you align your vocational life with your intrinsic motivations? How can you move from a good life to a great life?
Don’t cut any corners here! Take some real time to reflect on this. Ask people who know and love you for their observations on this issue. Journal and pray about gaining clarity. Don’t rush this. Take you time.
Then?
Begin to study how this transition could occur. Read, research, explore, and craft some plans. Seek the favor of God and the counsel of friends. Don’t rush this, but don’t stop or take short-cuts.
Then?
Go all in and trade your good life for a great one. Don’t settle for less in a land that offers you the ability to have it all.